If you’re unexpectedly pregnant and addicted to drugs or other substances, such as alcohol, American Adoptions is here for you. Regardless of whether or not you are pregnant and addicted to drugs, we can work with you to create an adoption plan without judgment. Call 1-800-ADOPTION now.

It’s important to know that if you do choose to pursue adoption, there’s an adoptive family out there for every pregnant woman, substance abuse issues or not.

Here’s how American Adoptions helps women who come to us when they are pregnant and addicted to drugs:

Adoption Screening and Drug Addiction While Pregnant:

When a pregnant woman first contacts American Adoptions, she is connected with her own personal adoption specialist. This social worker will be her main point of contact throughout her entire pregnancy and the adoption process, should she end up putting a child up for adoption whose mother has been on drugs.

Your adoption specialist will work to determine your commitment to adoption and help you to learn more about living a healthy lifestyle, both for your own benefit and your baby’s.

Your adoption specialist will also help you receive access to prenatal care. These prenatal care records, along with your self-disclosed Social Medical History form, will be given to the child’s adoptive parents (with personal identifying information redacted). The Social Medical History form will ask for information about your family’s medical history and her own, as well as any pertinent facts about substance usage. This is where someone “giving a baby up” for adoption due to being a mother on drugs would indicate any substance use.

Please know, however, that disclosing any information about being pregnant and addicted to drugs will not lead to any sort of punishment or consequences. Rather, this information will help us to match you with an adoptive family who is prepared to accept any challenges a child may have in relation to substance use.

For example, some families may be better equipped than others to adopt a baby from a woman who is pregnant and addicted to pain pills. There will be no judgment based on any substance usage; a woman who chooses to place her baby for adoption is making a selfless and brave decision, regardless of any other circumstances.

How We Don’t Screen Pregnant Women:

At American Adoptions, we do not drug screen the pregnant women we work with.

Initially, this is a practice we used, but we quickly learned that the cons outweighed the pros. When addicts give kids up for adoption, they are making a brave choice, just as any other expectant mother is.

By screening pregnant women who seek out adoption plans for their babies, adoption agencies can:

• Undermine their relationships with the pregnant women who come to them for help. Drug screening a pregnant woman indicates to her that we don’t trust her, which is certainly not the case. The bond an adoption specialist shares with her clients is paramount to a successful adoption process for everyone.

• Give adoptive families a false sense of security. The honest truth is that a drug test can be circumvented in a variety of ways. Just because a woman passes one does not necessarily mean she is not pregnant and addicted to drugs. Because many of our adoptive families are willing to adopt babies from women who were pregnant and addicted to certain substances, we don’t wish to give anyone a false sense of hope that their child will not have had this exposure because of a false drug test.

• Offend the pregnant women who seek help. We respect and trust the potential birth mothers who contact our agency. If a woman says she is not using any substances, we believe her. If she is, we do not judge; rather, we help her to make an adoption plan and to make healthy choices for herself and her child.

When you work with American Adoptions, you will always feel safe and you will never be judged.

How American Adoptions Helps Women Who Are Pregnant and Addicted to Drugs:

Every family who works with American Adoptions fills out an APQ or Adoption Planning Questionnaire. In their APQ, they will be given the opportunity to indicate which substances they are comfortable with a prospective birth mother potentially using throughout her pregnancy. Prospective adoptive families will be presented to pregnant women who are a good fit for the preferences they list on their APQ.

Say, for example, that you came to this article thinking, “I’m a pregnant heroin addict; what about the baby?” Or, maybe you are saying, “Can I adopt my baby out if I am addicted to methamphetamines?”

If you pursue adoption, your adoption specialist would help you find an adoptive family who was comfortable with handling the potential effects that heroin or methamphetamine exposure could have on an infant. Adoptive families are encouraged to be as flexible as possible in their APQs, so no matter what your history with substance use is, we will work to find the right family for your baby.

It’s also important to know that, just as American Adoptions does not judge, neither do the adoptive families you may be matched with. Many hopeful adoptive parents understand, as we do, that admitting an addiction while seeking to give your child the best life possible is extremely difficult and commendable.

You will receive nothing but respect and admiration from an adoptive family for doing what is ultimately best for your child.

The Benefits of Choosing Adoption

You may be asking, “Should an addicted mom place a child for adoption?” It all depends on your unique situation. Regardless of your circumstances, adoption can benefit you and your child just as it can for anyone else.

A few of the primary benefits of adoption are that:

• You may be eligible to receive financial assistance in the form of pregnancy-related expenses. Depending on where you live, adoptive families can pay for a pregnant woman’s rent, maternity clothes, utilities, groceries, health expenses and more when she chooses to pursue adoption.

• You can choose your child’s adoptive family. An adoption specialist will help you to determine exactly the kind of life you imagine for your child and will ensure that you find a family who is capable of providing just that.

• You can still have a relationship with your child. By choosing open adoption, you’ll be able to watch your child grow up with a loving family, and you can have as much contact with him or her as the two of you wish, according to the adoption plan you create.

“I knew I had done what was best for Theodore. I gave him the best possible future, filled with unconditional love, financial stability, education and so much more! He has a mommy and daddy who love him more than anything. He has so many family members who can’t get enough of him. The love this child will always know is outrageous,” said Sara about her adoption experience.

To get more information about pursuing adoption if you are pregnant and addicted to drugs, please call American Adoptions at 1-800-ADOPTION to get a free consult.

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