Choosing adoption is often a positive turning point in your life, creating a brighter future for everyone involved. Many people from different walks of life put their baby’s needs before their own in order to give their baby the best life possible.
No matter which decision you make, know that you’re not alone. Our trained counselors are always available to help you understand your choice to pursue adoption. Whether you’re currently looking at unplanned pregnancy options or have been parenting for a while, here are some of the common reasons for adoption.
Contact us online now to get the support you need during the decision-making process.
The Biggest Reasons Children Are Placed for Adoption
1. You Want Your Child to Have the Best Life Possible
Through adoption, you can shape your baby’s life the way you want it to be. From choosing the city your child grows up in to deciding the lifestyle you want for them, you’ll be in control of choosing an adoptive family ready to give your baby the life you’ve always envisioned.
This reason for adoption will pave the way toward a brighter future for you and your baby. We know that your top goal is for your baby to experience unconditional love. By choosing adoption, you’ll have a front row seat to watch your child thrive in an environment handpicked by you.
“I am so lucky that adoption was available to me and that I found two wonderful people who were ready to be parents because it was the only way to make a decision that coincided with my highest values of love and respect for Ellie’s life and mine.” – Katheryn, birth mother.
2. Parenting Would Be a Financial Struggle
It’s no secret that raising a child is expensive. As of March 2024, the cost of raising a child has jumped to $312,202 based on data from the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics. Another reason for adoption is financial hardship. Through adoption, you can choose adoptive parents who are more than prepared for these costs.
Every adoptive parent that works with us undergoes a rigorous screening to ensure that they’re ready to become parents. From in-home assessments to evaluating financial security, you’ll find comfort knowing that your baby will grow up in a supportive environment with two loving parents.
When you choose adoption, know that it’ll always be free. You’ll also receive financial assistance to help alleviate any financial stressors during the process. Whether that’s help with rent, bills or childcare, you’ll always be supported throughout this important journey no matter what.
3. You Don’t Have a Proper Support System in Place
Raising a child can be hard both physically and emotionally, especially if you don’t have a strong support system. Instead of raising a child on your own, adoption helps you secure a stable, two-parent household full of support. Most adoptive families that work with us are married couples who have been together for years and who have been trying to have a child for a long time.
Unless you’re prepared to become a single parent, you’ll need the help and support emotionally, practically or financially. Through adoption, you can give your baby a life filled with unconditional support from parents who are ready to give your baby the best life possible.
“Although I felt devastated when I learned I was pregnant, I eventually fell so in love with the life I created and wanted everything for him. I knew I couldn’t provide that but fully believe Ray and Donna can. We’ve kept in touch and have even gotten together since his birth.” – Nicole, birth mother.
4. You’re Not Ready for Parenting
Unplanned pregnancies often come during the most inconvenient times. Whether your plans for parenting have changed or you know you’re not ready for parenthood, adoption can be a way to create a brighter future filled with endless opportunities for both you and your baby.
Maybe you have plans to further your education or advance your career. Whatever future you’ve envisioned can be possible when you choose adoption. We recognize how important your future is after placement. That’s why every birth mother that goes through the adoption process with us will be considered for our birth mother scholarship.
“10 years later, and I am now going to school to begin my career as a Medical Practice Manager, and I honestly don’t think I would be in this place if it wasn’t for the support I received from American Adoptions. Finding them has changed my life, and the life of that 5 lb. 6 oz. little girl I delivered that day.” – Brittnee, birth mother.
5. You’re Battling Addiction or Other Mental Health Issues
Choosing adoption for your baby can be an incredibly brave and loving decision, especially if you are battling addiction or other mental health issues. We understand that facing these challenges can feel overwhelming, and prioritizing you and your baby’s well-being is one of the most important things you can do.
We recognize the strength it takes to make such a selfless choice for your child’s future. You don’t have to navigate this journey alone; we are here to support you every step of the way. Our team is dedicated to helping you create a plan that prioritizes both your mental health and your baby’s best interests.
By choosing adoption, you can ensure your child is placed in a loving, stable home while also focusing on your own recovery and healing. Each situation is different, and there are many reasons for adoption that have one goal in mind: to provide your baby with a life filled with love and opportunity. If you’re ready to give your baby the life you’ve always imagined, then contact us online now.
